Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Love of a Father

“They say necessity is the mother of invention, so it’s not surprising that the snowmobile was invented in the deep Northwoods of Wisconsin. Born with a bum foot, Carl Eliason of Sayner needed a way to keep up with his friends and to check his traps in the winter. After working on his idea for two years, Eliason developed the prototype for his “motor toboggan” in 1924 and received a U.S. patent for it in 1929.” (Wisconsin Trails 2011)

During my preteen and teen years (and well past my years at home), our family owned snowmobiles. It began with a Polaris around 1969. Not many years later we acquired another sled, an Arctic Cat. Somewhere in the mid to late 1970’s my dad became a huge John Deere fan and we owned two John Deere sleds.

  

When I was growing up, my dad seemed a bit distant. Looking back, I realize he had much responsibility running a 250-acre farm and providing for a family of six; a family that would grow to seven in 1971. Farming was not and is not easy. We never took vacations, never went camping, rarely went on picnics, and all because of the farm. I resented it all through my teen years. When we kids asked if we could go on a vacation, Dad would respond, “We can go anywhere you want, as long as we are back by 6:00 to milk the cows.”

But then the snowmobiles came into our lives and snowmobiling became our vacation. At our house we prayed for snow, but not to have a day off from school. A day off from school meant the morning (or longer) spent cleaning the barn, feeding the cows, and bedding cows and calves. Really bad snow days meant thawing water troughs, silo unloaders, and gutter cleaners—a whole day of work. No, we wanted snow to accumulate over a week or so; the soft gentle snow, falling for days on end so school was still in session but the snow was piling up for the weekend. We wanted snow so the snowmobiles could come out of summer hibernation.

Often the first snowmobiling trip of the season was on Christmas night. My Aunt and Uncle LeJeune, and their three boys, always came for Christmas and always brought their two or three snowmobiles—Skidoos, yuck. Jovial banter about which sled was better and more reliable was always part of the trip. Our sleds were heavier than three of me and if I got that monster stuck, I wasn’t strong enough to lift it out; I was stuck.

The Christmas night ride was tradition. On a good night, we would ride for hours. I don’t remember very many rides being cancelled, despite the cold. If it was below zero, we just bundled up more and made the ride a short one. When the weather was good, and we were lucky, my dad and uncle would plan a whole day of riding for December 26. Christmas just wasn’t Christmas without the LeJeunes with us. Those three boys became my big brothers.

Snowmobiling fever really took a hold of my dad. Soon we were acquiring helmets, special gloves, one-piece snowmobile suits, and big insulated snow boots. Occasionally, in the evenings, my mom and dad would go riding with a group of neighbors. Another aunt and uncle were really into snowmobiling, and soon our two families had created a snowmobile club—the Sno Knights. We even had patches made for our snowmobile suits.


The Sno Knights would plan daylong adventures that would become vacations for our family. The day before the ride, Dad and Uncle Dave would venture into the Blue Hills of Northern Wisconsin and blaze a trail for our “vacation.” Chores were completed quickly on vacation days so that more time could be spent on the trails. Hot dogs, Shasta pop, hot chocolate, and cookies were loaded up with the firewood into our mush sled. The sled looked much like an Alaskan dog sled, but it was not nearly as lightweight. It had well built sides so two kids and supplies could be hauled easily. Trucks and trailers full of snowmobiles and accessories rolled into the Blues Hills. We kids were giddy with anticipation for the day’s ride.

The mid-day stop was a much-needed break from the trail. The fire provided an opportunity to warm up and make a hot lunch. As a young teen girl, wearing a one-piece snowmobile suit, I was quite careful about the amount of fluid consumed. Men don’t have the same bathroom issues as women wearing these one-piece straight jackets. Going to the bathroom was just one topic for complaint, and occasionally the cold was the other top area of contention. But these are not the things I choose to remember about our snowmobile vacations.

The crisp smell of snow, warmth of the sled, comfort of hotdogs and hot chocolate, banter about the best brand of sled, frozen eyelashes, cold fingers and toes, smell of snowmobile gas, drone of the snow machines, and time spent with family and friends are the things I remember. So much so, that 40 years later the smell of snow or sound of a snowmobile brings wonderful family memories flooding back to my mind, memories of a farm family’s version of a vacation. It is a reminder that as we grow our vision of our father can change. A father, who seemed to be distant, really wasn’t. He had his way of showing love for his family. My personal growth allows me to see my father more clearly.

Similarly, my growth in faith should allow me to see my Heavenly Father more clearly. My immature vision of a distant father was so wrong. He is a Father who loves me unconditionally and I don’t always understand His actions of love. I must choose to grow and mature in faith in order to see Him correctly. This is not a growth that occurs naturally as each day passes. This is a growth that only happens by choice, and each day I must make the choice to grow and mature. Will you make that choice today?

Monday, December 13, 2010

Warmth of Christmas

Christmas music. It puts us in the mood. It reminds us of childhood. Christmas carols are universal, many known ‘round the world. Music “speaks” to us, and not just Christmas music, all music has a voice. How else can we explain the explosive sales of MP3 players? People all around us are plugged into music. This week it was music that inspired my Reflections.

Growing up, one musical group, Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass, dominated the pile of record albums stored in our stereo console. It is possible we owned every one of their albums produced in the 60’s. The few other albums might have included Dean Martin, Perry Como, Bing Crosby, and some other crooners. Throw in an album or two by Henri Mancini or the Living Strings and you have the music I heard while growing up. It is no wonder then that I love the crooners, music with a Latin influence, or instrumental movie scores, and even light jazz. It is this last category that allowed me to float back to childhood just this week.

In an effort to reintroduce dating to our 26-year marriage, my husband took me to “A Big Band Christmas” held at our church, Good Shepherd Community Church. We were entertained but such Christmas favorites as “Silver Bells”, “White Christmas”, and a very entertaining jazz version of “Frosty the Snowman.” Each of the songs is familiar. There is not a particular memory attached to each one, but together they take me back to a time; a time where tradition ruled and the weeks before Christmas seemed to be the longest four weeks of the year. Mom endeavored to keep us five kids busy.

Decorating for the season was one of the first tasks completed at our house right after Thanksgiving. This typically took place the first full weekend of December. Decorations could not be put up until the weekly cleaning was complete. I remember stacking six Christmas albums into our stereo. This would provide just enough music to complete the cleaning and decorating tasks. Even today Herb Alpert can help inspire me to clean.

Albums included Herb Alpert and the Tijuana Brass Christmas, White Christmas: Bing Crosby, Spirit of Christmas: Living Strings, Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer: Gene Autry, Montavoni’s Christmas, and a few others. It was an eclectic group of musicians and vocalists but there was a theme, music from a time gone by.

While these were the songs of Christmas cleaning, another group of songs remind me of time spent watching Christmas variety programs with my dad. The Bob Hope Christmas Special has to be mentioned, but I don’t associate it with particular music of the season, just comedy sketches. That guy could make my dad laugh, not such an easy task.

Musically, the season is not complete without Dean Martin singing “Let It Snow”. For me, Dean Martin is remembered with a cigarette in one hand and a supposed drink in the other. I thought him an odd man and never cared much for his program, but there are a few songs that I love sung by Dean Martin.

Andy Williams Christmas Special was my favorite holiday program. “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year” and “Happy Holidays” are just two of my favorites sung by Andy. Certainly, any part of the program that included the Osmond Brothers ranks high on my list, particularly when Donny joined the group. I could never get over that he was my age, singing on national television.

Perry Como’s Christmas show is long forgotten by me, but who can forget “Do
You Hear What I Hear”, “The Little Drummer Boy”, or “O Holy Night” sung in that lovely tenor voice. I have also long forgotten Nat King Cole’s Christmas special, but no one sings “The Christmas Song” like Nat King Cole.

Bing Crosby is known for crooning many a Christmas carol, but his version of “White Christmas” and “I’ll Be Home for Christmas” are my all time favorites and I cry nearly every time I hear them. “White Christmas” probably because the movie “White Christmas” was the only show my mother actually sat down to watch, and “I’ll Be Home” because I live so far from my immediate family and trips home for Christmas are scarce. Despite the melancholy attached to these two songs, they do warm my heart.

So many of the songs of the season warm my heart, particularly when sung by the likes of Nat King Cole, Perry Como, Dean Martin, Andy Williams, and Bing Crosby. The songs they sung helped us to really focus on the meaning of Christmas; family. Whether the song was intended to help us focus on our earthly family or our heavenly family, the season is about family. It is the traditions revolving around the family that are remembered. It is never the gifts that provide the warmth of the season it’s the togetherness. Seek to create the memories that will warm the hearts of your family for many years to come. Don’t miss what God intended with the birth of His son. He intended a way for us to be a part of the forever family. Do you know Him? If you do, don’t forget him this Christmas. If you don’t, I invite you to come join the Family and get to know Jesus this Christmas.



Monday, December 6, 2010

Sugar Cookies and the Meaning of Life

Bird nests, snowballs, date frying pan, sugar, and spritz were the many varieties of cookies that would appear on the Christmas Day cookie platter at our house when I was a kid. Sometime later, caramel bars would be added to the list of baked cookies that must be made before the big day. Mom’s plans probably included an order for baking, as some of these cookies freeze better than others. Mom must plan strategically to get them all made, squirrel away adequate quantities for the Christmas Day platter, while leaving enough available for school lunches and daily dessert.

My favorite cookie baking memories are related to the making of sugar cookies.
There were five of us kids all wanting a chance to decorate cookies. I imagine Mom wanted to decorate some herself so that they were presentable for the Christmas Day platter. My mom was quite a perfectionist when it came to baking. This is a trait we girls seem to have inherited and it has trickled down to a few granddaughters as well. But I digress. Five children each wanting a dozen or two cookies to decorate, quickly amounts to more than eight dozen cookies.

The job of rolling the dough, and transferring cookies to the baking sheet, often remained in Mom’s capable hands. Mom insisted on a consistent thickness and rolling the dough too many times would make the cookies tough. When we got older we were allowed to attempt rolling. We were reminded to place the cutters close so you get a lot of cookies each time you rolled the dough. “Sugar cookies are piddly,” Mom often said. Make the dough, roll the dough, cut the dough, transfer the dough, decorate the dough, bake the dough, …. you see, Piddly!

We were always allowed to choose the cookie shapes and the manner in which we wanted to decorate. There are two schools of thought on decorating sugar cookies. For years, our sugar cookies were sprinkled with white and colored sugar before baking. Christmas tree shapes usually had a silver ball at the top. (I now know these are called silver dragees) Sometimes we went crazy with the silver balls, which were hard as a rock, and the cookies became almost impossible to eat. The second way to decorate is to bake, cool, cover with white frosting, and then decorate with colored sugar. This is my preferred method today.

Each child had a cookie tin. When the cookies were completed, and thoroughly cooled, we placed our special creations into our tins. For the next few evenings, we kids would beg our dad to “eat one of mine.”  Dad wisely avoided the cookies covered in silver balls. Was choosing one of our creations for consumption, in some small way, acceptance of us and our unique gifts?

Food..…it was such a symbol of love at our house. Dad worked literally sun-up to sun-down (and often more) to provide for our family. Mom spent most of her days cooking and baking for our family of seven. Guests were always offered to stay and eat with us, or have a cup of coffee and a few cookies. Did not Jesus call himself the Bread of Life? Jesus then is our food for life and what great love that he would give himself so that we might truly live. Without fully intending it, my parents were modeling love and life through their daily lives and being God’s living example of love for me and my siblings. Today, I thank God for that type of childhood and that type of family.